Introduction
The holiday season is a time for celebration, reflection, and, often, stress. However, for many, the absence of the traditional holiday activities and expectations can leave a void in their yearly experience. In 2021, several individuals shared their thoughts on what is missing from this special time of the year.
Missing the Stress of Conventional Holidays
Let's start with a common perspective: for many, the holiday season brings with it a plethora of pressures and stresses. This is especially true when it comes to spending, shopping, and trying to keep up with the expectations of family and friends.
One individual, nicknamed 'NoClue', expressed deep dissatisfaction with the stress associated with holidays. 'Have no clue. Haven’t celebrated a holiday for over a decade since places stopped closing,' they shared, highlighting a decade of work and no break from busy schedules. 'The best part is money stays where it belongs in the bank.' They continue, 'Ppl whom do holidays especial this one coming up drive super insane and always rushing about.' They condemn the reckless behavior and near-accidents that often come with the chaos of the holiday season.
The Simple Pleasures
On the other hand, some individuals find joy in the simplicity of their holiday celebrations. One such person remarked, 'at least I only shop for groceries and when we absolutely need something, and I don’t have dinners like everyone else either so very cost effective and no debts all because of a holiday. ' This person appreciates the minimalism and the cost-effectiveness of their holiday festivities.
Avoiding the Pressure with a Personal Touch
Another individual, who preferred to keep things simple and meaningful, shared, 'What’s is truly missing is all the stress that ppl put on these holidays and I am good not being like everyone else. It’s just another day is all.' This sentiment highlights a growing trend where people are finding value in doing things their own way, rather than adhering to societal expectations.
Giving and Receiving Less
Money Says
One financial advisor shared, 'Money. I’m gonna be giving minimal gifts this year.' This sentiment is shared by many, as it reflects a shift towards more mindful and budget-friendly gift-giving. The idea of giving less but with more thoughtfulness is increasingly popular.
Religious Reflection
The True Reason
For those with a spiritual inclination, the holiday season can be a time of reflection and celebration. As one person shared, 'Nothing is missing. Jesus is the reason for Christmas. Its about his birthday.' This perspective emphasizes the spiritual significance of the holiday season, rather than the commercial aspects.
Personal Growth and New Beginnings
Emotional Journeys
Some people use the holiday season to reflect on their personal journeys and relationships. One individual shared, 'Whats missing from my holiday season in 2021 is the guy i used too have feelings for is gone cause we parted our separate ways BUT I moved on from him.. but I met a new guy and we dated well we dated online until the new guy ghosted me and i feel bad because I told the new guy his real name is Omar and is that I was scared of him ghosting me just like what Lorenzo did and then he was gonna leave me for another girl he knows irl and Omar told me I was the only one he loves romantically and I told Omar I loved him so much but he ghosted me and it made me feel bad because it happened too me again.. a guy ditching me.' This person's journey highlights the emotional challenges and lessons learned during the holiday season.
Conclusion
The holiday season in 2021 was diverse and filled with both joy and challenges. For some, it was a time to find simplicity and avoid stress, for others it was a time to reflect on personal journeys, and for many, it was a season to practice mindful giving. Regardless of what is missing, the holiday season provided a platform for personal growth and reflection.