What Drives You Mad About Living in Spain: Realities and Surprises
Living in Spain is a golden dream for many, especially if you have Spanish blood or ancestry and share the values of Spanish Catholicism. To us, all that the country has to offer—be it the quality of infrastructure, transportation, healthcare, the joy of life, weather, beaches, or the beauty of our people—seems to be far from enough. It's a tale of constant amazement for tourists, who marvel at our enchanting lifestyle, houses of worship, and diverse cultural offerings. However, the list of those eye-catching good things doesn't obscure the endless maladies that sometimes give us pause.
Cultural Differences: Issues and Observations
Among the issues that can drive us mad are the pervasive litter and filth on public streets. The sight of dogs urinating and defecating wherever they please, and the lack of respect for pedestrian crossings, is a common frustration. The streets can quickly turn into a battlefield of dog waste, making it almost impossible to walk without navigating a zigzag path. The complete disregard for zebra crossings by drivers is another pet peeve that adds to the daily grind.
Bureaucratic Challenges: Navigating the Red Tape
Beyond the physical inconveniences, the sheer amount of paperwork required for any bureaucratic task can feel like a complex maze. Whether you're applying for an ID card, NIE, a bank account, residency, or a marriage license, the process demands not only meticulous organization but also adherence to a tumultuous series of conditions. Everything must be copied in triplicate, notarized, stapled, and timed to the second. The process is so convoluted that even the Vatican's phases of the moon are said to play a role in the validity of your documents. On top of that, the service can be rudimentary and disinterested, with government workers and other officials seemingly more interested in relaxation than providing assistance.
For those who rely on convenience and efficiency, bureaucratic challenges can add a significant layer of stress to daily life. The video parody on YouTube captures the extreme lengths to which people go to cope with this hassle, making it an amusing and relatable example of the daily frustrations.
A Positive Perspective: Embracing the Challenges
Despite the annoyance of litter, filth, and bureaucratic hurdles, there is plenty to love about living in Spain. My personal experience as a resident since 2004 is one of continued joy and discovery. While the red tape can be formidable, the cultural depth, historical richness, and the simple pleasures of life in Spain are invigorating. I have no intention of leaving, and I continue to find joy in the daily nuances of Spanish life.
The challenges faced may vary from person to person, but the overall experience of living in Spain can be enriching. So, if you are considering a move to Spain, embrace the challenges and the wonders, and let them contribute to your overall experience.