Unspoken Beauty: Love, Integrity, and Intuition
When someone asks us to describe their beauty and the things we love about them, it's easier to focus on superficial aspects like appearance. However, when we delve deeper, it becomes clear that true beauty and love are often rooted in qualities that go beyond physical appearance. In this article, we explore the concept of beauty as it relates to intuition, integrity, and intuition through the lens of personal experiences.
Beauty in Intuition and Humor
To me, beautiful people have a good sense of humor and an intuitive understanding of others. They take care of themselves and those around them with kindness, patience, and generosity. These qualities stem from a deep-seated understanding of human nature and a willingness to embrace and help others. True beauty, as perceived through these virtues, transcends mere physical appearance.
A Tribute to My Soul Mate: Jeane
Amid my reflections on beauty, I find that one person stands out: Jeane, my soul mate whom I lost to the passing of time. She exemplified the highest form of beauty and virtues through her actions and values. If I were to describe Jeane’s beauty and what I loved about her, I might speak of her beauty in actions and qualities rather than just physical features.
Jeane's Physical Appearance and Beauty
Jeane was indeed attractive, but her beauty extended far beyond her physical appearance. She radiated an undeniable charm that made people stop and notice her. She arrived in a room with the air of sophistication and presence that was almost palpable, but it was her internal beauty that truly captivated. Those who stayed passive and simply watched, missing the essence of Jeane, often found themselves unable to look away. Her gentle demeanor, especially with older people and children, was unmatched; she had an uncanny ability to connect and make everyone around her feel valued.
Loving Jeane Beyond Physical Beauty
I loved Jeane for who she was and not just for her looks or figure. We spent over forty years together in a perfect relationship, and from her, I learned the value of true integrity and empathy. She was an example of someone who respected the concept of "ours" rather than "mine." Perhaps one of the most poignant examples of this is a story that I have yet to share publicly, but it is reflective of her character and commitment.
A Case in Point: Jeane's Generosity and Commitment
In 1976, my life changed when Jeane entered it. She was married to Lowell, but had become disenchanted with her relationship. When I met her, she was driving a 1975 Lincoln Continental Mark IV, a car she seemed to enjoy. However, two weeks after our meeting, Jeane decided to follow through on her intention to get a new car. When she went to Royal Lincoln/Mercury, she purchased a 1976 Mark V, a car she later gave to me, writing me a check and handing me the keys. This was not just an act of generosity; it was a statement of commitment to our shared future. She referred to the car as 'ours,' not 'mine.'
Jeane's generosity and commitment extended to every aspect of our relationship. She always said 'ours' instead of 'mine' when referring to any asset or possession. For instance, when she had her own funds, she insisted on referring to it as our money, expressing her preference for shared prosperity and mutual respect.
Jeane's actions inspired me to see the world through a lens of oneness and partnership. She taught me the value of the song lyric, 'You and Me Against the World.' We saw ourselves as a team, working together towards a common goal. This perspective helped me build the strength, integrity, and empathy that I value in myself today.
Conclusion
Beautiful people are those who have a deep sense of intuition and a strong integrity. They are patient, kind, loving, and generous. They have a natural ability to connect with others and see the world through a lens of empathy and oneness. Jeane was a perfect example of such a person, and her legacy continues to inspire me to embody these virtues in my own life.