Unique Experiences: Common Human Phenomena I Have Never Witnessed
Every human being embarks on a unique journey, encountering a variety of experiences that shape their life in profound ways. However, there are certain common human phenomena that some individuals might never witness, due to a myriad of reasons including personal circumstances or societal norms. Let's delve into some of these intriguing experiences that I, personally, have not navigated.
Mental and Emotional Connections
One of the most fundamental human experiences is the profound connection we form with our family and friends. As an isolated individual in this journey, I have always wondered how such intimate and enduring bonds are formed and maintained. It's often a subject of both admiration and curiosity for me. People talk about the deep emotional ties that bind them to their loved ones, yet I have not personally been part of such a connection, at least not in the way they describe.
No Speeding Tickets
It's quite exhilarating for some to skip a speeding ticket, and I must admit, I've never been on the list of those blessed individuals. Getting stopped by the police is somewhat inevitable, but the leniency of letting me go with just a warning has always been a pleasant surprise. My driving habits are generally within the legal limit. However, there’s an interesting twist here. When it comes to girls, their charming smiles and apologies can sometimes defuse the situation, turning a potential speeding ticket into a serene interaction. Sassy girls, on the other hand, tend to get caught in the act.
No Use of ATM Machines
Apart from witnessing others rely on electronic banking, I’ve always stayed away from using ATM machines. For over five decades, I’ve managed to bank my transactions without ever needing an ATM card. The convenience of drive-up windows and in-branch services has been sufficient. With my non-retirement account history, I passed by banks daily during my working years, and the fear of robbery or account theft pushed me further away from ATM machines. They seemed more disruptive than helpful to me.
No Exposure to Illicit Substances
One of the most prevalent experiences in the teenage years, according to school teachings, was the offer or exposure to illegal drugs. However, as I approach my 47th year, I have never been offered any illegal substances. The nearest I've come to a close encounter was during my college years when a waiter attempted to sell me alcoholic beverages, despite my clear refusal. This incident, though discomforting, has reinforced my belief that certain experiences are not out there for everyone.
No Virginity Loss by 22 Years
Age 22 is often seen as a significant milestone when it comes to the loss of one’s virginity. However, at 62, I still haven’t experienced such a milestone. This is influenced by several factors. Firstly, as an adopted child, I never knew my biological parents and grew up in an environment that did not provide emotional or psychological support for such intimate experiences. This led me to refuse to engage in such activities without the security of being married first. Secondly, while not strictly religious, my spiritual beliefs have played a role in my choices. Despite the lack of a significant other, I firmly believe that the right partner will come along in time.
No Boyfriend in Teenage Years
During my teenage years, the idea of a steady boyfriend was just a distant memory. I had a few dates here and there, but never a real boyfriend. Similarly, I've never visited Disneyland or Disney World. Another milestone that has eluded me is accidental vomiting during pregnancy. While these events are common enough, my life has unfolded in such a way that these experiences have not touched my path.
Reflecting on these experiences, while somewhat uncommon in the general population, highlights the diversity of human journeys and the unique ways each of us traverse life's path.