Transitioning from California: A Personal Journey and Road Rules
My dad drove his trailer to LA, bringing my wife and me back to Tulsa. We were quite a chaotic family, moving often due to personal circumstances. After a volatile few years marked by a divorce, I found myself in Houston where I am still residing today, 48 years later, now with a new wife and two children.
The Emotional Journey: From California to Texas
Living in California had its moments, but change brought a new set of challenges. My decision to leave was fueled by the desire for a fresh start and the uncertainty that came with it. Every move is a significant life event, and my transition from California to Texas was no exception.
The Physical Move: Packing and Permission
The physical act of moving is a mix of excitement and the painstaking process of organizing and packing. One humorous anecdote is the border joke with Governor Newsom at the Nevada-California border: ‘Pack your U Haul… get in it… start driving… when you get to the State Border at Primm Nevada… Stop… get out of vehicle… moon Governor Newsom… get back in vehicle… drive to freedom.’
Moving: The Processes and Formalities
Moving to a new state involves much more than just packing and driving. It's a series of formalities that must be completed with diligence:
Tell the DMV You Are Moving: Updating your vehicle registration with the Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV) in your new state is crucial. This involves providing your new address and transferring any existing vehicle registrations.
Social Security Update: Informing the Social Security Administration of your new address is important for maintaining your benefits and keeping your information up-to-date.
New Driver's License and Insurance: Applying for a new driver's license in your new state is necessary. Additionally, check your current insurance policy to determine if it will be valid in your new location. If not, you may need to purchase new insurance.
Birth Certificate: A birth certificate may be required for some state-specific documents and services. Ensure you have a valid copy.
File California Tax Return: As a resident of a different state, it's essential to file a final California state tax return, even if you've moved mid-year.
Life in Houston: A New Beginning
After settling in Houston, I've found a balance in my new life. The support from my new family and the vibrant community have made my transition smoother. Over the years, my children have grown into responsible and well-adjusted adults.
Conclusion
Moving to a new state after California can be a complex and challenging process, but with careful planning and attention to detail, it can also be a transformative experience. From emotional transitions to logistical challenges, every step of the journey is important.
End Notes
Follow these tips to make your transition easier:
Update your official documents and information in your new state.
Prepare for the new responsibilities that come with a new state of residence.
Stay connected with both your old and new communities as you adjust.