The Challenges of Living in Colombia: My Worst Experience
Living in Colombia is an adventure, and there are many reasons why I have chosen to make it my home. However, one aspect of life here that persists and is often a source of frustration is the need to stay constantly vigilant against scams and poor business practices. This mentality has permeated various sectors of society, from service providers to major companies, and it has felt like a significant part of adapting to life in Colombia.
As a resident for over a year, I have encountered numerous situations where the lack of business ethics and poor customer service have forced me to continuously chase after fixes, refunds, and assurances from service providers. The underlying issue here is corruption, which is pervasive not just in the government but also in businesses and everyday dealings. Companies that perpetrate scams are not held accountable, and the mentality of “let’s be slick and rip someone else off” has become normalized in daily life.
Culture of Scams and Lack of Accountability
From construction companies to apartment management, every sector seems to operate under a facade of unethical practices. Service providers often do not follow through on their commitments, and once issues arise, the residents must spend time and effort to get things resolved. This can include everything from fixing broken appliances to obtaining refunds for unsatisfactory services. In many cases, service providers simply do not take complaints seriously or have a lackadaisical approach to customer service.
The situation is exacerbated by the common perception that all sorts of business issues are normal. When mistakes are made, companies often fail to address them adequately, and customers are left frustrated. Some service providers even attempt to scam their clients, but these companies often go unpunished. This has created a mindset among Colombians that when dealing with businesses, they should anticipate being treated poorly and should be prepared to fight for their rights.
Impact on Friends and Relationships
This environment has had a significant impact on my relationships, friendships, and interactions with locals. I have noticed that many single women might seek money or favors from me, and it has also made it very challenging to make genuine friendships. The motivation behind social interactions often appears to revolve around financial gain, which can be disheartening. It is a stark contrast to the warm and welcoming culture that outsiders might initially perceive.
A Paisa, a local friend who I have built a trust with, once told me that as a gringo, I am a target. This realization has made me more cautious, and I cannot help but wonder if the same issues I encounter as a resident would be significantly different if I were a local.
Reflecting on my experiences, I have come to the conclusion that I would not recommend this environment for those looking for a place where they can easily make friends and feel secure in their transactions. The need to always remain vigilant against scams and the constant struggle for satisfactory service can be draining and demoralizing. However, Colombia still remains a beautiful country with a rich cultural heritage that is worth exploring, but with a clear understanding of the challenges involved.
Conclusion
Living in Colombia is a complex experience that blends the beauty of the country with the everyday struggles of navigating a culture where business ethics and customer service often fall short of expectations. While I still cherish my time here, the reality of the situation is that it requires a heightened awareness of the surrounding environment and a different mindset to thrive. Understanding the cultural nuances and being prepared for the realities of daily life can help one enjoy the many facets of this vibrant and diverse nation.