Returning to America: A Journey Through Culture Shock, Adaptation and Personal Growth

After spending several years in Europe, my return to the United States was a significant journey with a mix of emotions and challenges. While adjusting to the familiarity of American stores, malls, and public services was a positive experience, there were issues of quality and lifestyle that highlighted differences between the two continents. This article explores the experience of coming back to the USA, the impact of culture shock, and the challenges and rewards of living between two worlds.

Positive Aspects of Returning to the United States

The most significant positive aspects of coming back to the USA were the abundance and convenience of resources. Americans may not fully appreciate how much they have in terms of access to goods, services, and entertainment options compared to other countries. Living in the suburbs of Philadelphia, I was impressed by the local amenities such as 7-day-a-week stores and well-stocked libraries. Additionally, the cost of living was significantly lower, making everyday items like food, gasoline, housing, and personal goods cheaper. The weather was also warmer and more enjoyable than in many parts of Europe.

Negative Aspects and Unexpected Adjustments

While the return to the US was mostly positive, there were also significant challenges. The quality of local restaurants, beer, wine, and services in the US was far behind what was found in Europe. European cities were cleaner, safer, and less ridden with issues of racism and religious extremism. The urban design was more pedestrian-friendly, reflecting a different approach to city planning. The lifestyle differences extended to the weather, which in many parts of the US is not as temperate as in Europe.

Cultural Shock and Personal Growth

The experience of coming back was a profound cultural shock—both leaving and returning. It was an exciting yet challenging new experience that provided a valuable opportunity for personal growth. Living in the USA is great, but it has much to learn from Europe. The contrast highlighted the relative strengths and weaknesses of both regions, leading to insights and personal adaptations.

Financial and Emotional Challenges

The decision to return to the USA was driven by our family's needs. Logistically and emotionally, the process was fraught with challenges. The decision was heart-wrenching as we had to choose between our personal quality of life and the proximity to our families. Health insurance in the USA was a significant obstacle, making it difficult to find affordable options. In the end, our European boss's decision to start a US subsidiary provided us with the opportunity to move back, albeit with the financial and logistical hurdles that came with it.

Adjustment and Adapting to the New Lifestyle

The transition to living back in the US was not straightforward. The housing market, credit system, and healthcare system posed unique challenges. We had to navigate complex mortgage applications and health insurance enrollment with the additional hurdle of no pre-existing credit score in the US system. Timing also played a crucial role; we moved on September 30, 2016, just before a pivotal election that changed the political and social landscape. Nevertheless, we adapted and found ways to maintain our quality of life, even if it meant making significant sacrifices in other areas.

Conclusion

Coming back to the USA was a transformative experience that offered both challenges and opportunities for growth. While the quality of life in Europe is superior in many respects, the USA offers a wealth of opportunities and amenities that are unique in their own way. The experience was a valuable lesson in adapting to new cultures and systems, and it reinforced our appreciation for the strengths of both the US and Europe. Moving back was a decision that required significant courage and commitment, but it was ultimately a decision that enriched our lives and strengthened our relationships with our families.

Through this journey, we learned that everyone should embrace the opportunity to experience different cultures and lifestyles, as it can foster personal growth and a deeper understanding of the world. The challenges we faced, from navigating the US healthcare system to the logistical issues of moving abroad, were worth the personal and emotional rewards. We hope that this article resonates with those who are considering similar journeys and encourages them to take the leap with the same determination and resilience.