American Abroad: Nostalgia and the Unshakeable Charm of Home
Introduction
For those Americans living abroad, the memories of home can be both delightful and challenging. Nostalgia often sparks a deep longing for specific American things and the friendly, small-town culture we so dearly cherish. This article explores the essence of those American things we miss, with a focus on American friendliness, and the importance of home.
American Friendliness: A Universal Appeal
A British expat living in Germany once said, 'American friendliness is something I miss every day.' The warmth and genuineness of American interactions, especially in small talk at the grocery store or in elevators, are unique and cherished.
Recalling their journey to America after staying in South Korea, where McDonald's was not yet available, the first thing they did was to visit a McDonald's in Japan. The sheer delight in enjoying a Big Mac priced at $20 back then highlights the simplicity and joy in those American customs.
The Cultural Palate and Homecoming
Life abroad offers a rich tapestry of new experiences and cultures, but the longing for home remains a constant theme. The adage 'There is no day without the night' rings true, suggesting that we must disconnect from our homes to fully embrace new environments.
For many, the essence of home transcends the physical structure or the space we live in. It is the familiar scent of the air at a particular time of year, the taste of a beloved hometown dish, or the warmth of interaction with familiar faces—friends, family, or even strangers who connect through a shared sense of kindness.
The Nostalgia of Home
The cultural contrast between Germany's more reserved demeanor and the warmth of American friendliness often makes the latter stand out. However, living abroad also brings a keen awareness of the issues and challenges within our own culture. This reflection is not about perfection but about appreciating the nuances that add depth to our lives.
There is a certain sweetness in the ritual of 'coming home.' Whether it's the comfort of returning to your cherished abode or finding solace in days of reflection after a stimulating adventure, this act of returning offers a bittersweet joy. It's a moment to catch your breath and remember why you left in the first place.
Conclusion
Living abroad is a rich and vibrant experience, filled with new sights, sounds, and smells. Yet, it is the pull of nostalgia and the cherished memories of home that make these journeys truly memorable. As Americans living in foreign lands, we continue to miss these American things, cherishing the friendliness and warmth that define us.